Ok lets begin here......
Ppl don't the the time nor interest to be a free mentor to someone else's hobby. To be quite straightforward honest with you.
You can post questions here and get pedestrian answers.... but for someone to teach you in-depth? Ppl dont have time
Good luck though....
Pretty sure we mentor a lot of people right here on R2R. Official hand holding mentoring, no. But the wealth of knowledge thats obtained from reading some of the stickies is dang near the same thing.
Yes... go to a local reef club and give out an open invitation for anyone there to come over 1hr a week to teach you all they know and help you with YOUR tank in your house
Let me know how many ppl show up to your place...
I wish I had a reef club around. I used to belong to one in a city thats 200 miles drive one way, but it was too far a drive to be an active member. I did actually show up to help someone for pizza and beer(yet I don't drink).
My point....?
If ppl don't have a direct benefit, they aren't going to help you. 99.999% of ppl don't have time for someone else UNLESS there's smthg in it for them.
It's reality...and a fallout of a post-Covid world, bruh.
Everyone will say,"oh man, I'll help you" but then never show up bc there's nothing it in for them to give an effort.
While I usually like your tongue in cheek attitude, this is not one of those times when your wit is needed nor wanted. Little salty are we?
Seriously I've helped many people over the years for 0 payment, nothing, nada, zip, zero, zilch. Heck I have even driven 2 hours one way to help a fellow reefer that was moving and needed help. Had no idea who they were, just saw a message someone needed help, I had free time, so I went. Helped another fellow reefer get started, basically mentored them. Helped drill holes in their floor for remote sump, drilled their tank and installed a ghost overflow, did 99% of the plumbing into the remote sump, and even helped them for the first few months to get the hang of things. Went over nearly every day after work and wasted 30 minutes testing, and teaching.
But I am this way in life as well. If someone is in need, and I can help, I'm more then happy to help with 0 expectations of anything in return. People have way more time these days then many years ago. People just think they have no time because they are always with a screen in front of them. 90% of the time doing nothing but browsing youtube, instagram, facebook, etc, but to them, they are doing "stuff". God imagine if we had computers, and all these lazy people 100 years ago when we had to hunt and farm to feed ourselves. You know back when you couldn't run out to McDonalds for a cheeseburger. The human race would have died out by now.
You know thats how people are supposed to be, Help those in need for nothing expected in return. I do hope that some day when I need help, I can get it. Help those in need to hopefully get help one day when you need it.
Looks like you doing everything right. How are you dosing your calcium and alkalinity as well as topping off? You can't just dump 50 mls of calcium, it will precipitate and become useless you need to add it slowly. A dosing pump does this quite effectively, it adds it in increments slowly over time which is the most effective way to add 2 part.
Why can't he manually dose 50ml by hand? I get he needs test kits, but a dosing pump is certainly not needed. I have no idea how big of a tank he has, but there is no problem BOLUS dosing to raise levels within acceptable ranges(I would not go over 50ppm calcium, or 1DKH alkalinity in a single day). How do you think we used to do it? Heck even BRS recommends hand dosing at first till you get the hang of it.
OP if you wouldn't mind private messaging me, I would have 0 issues mentoring you. Just be aware, we all reef differently. The way I do things isn't the way someone else does things either.
For instance, the new trend is tropic marins all for reef, yet I prefer regular old cheap 2 part.
While I certainly have the money to spend, I still prefer to do certain things by hand as it gets me "in tune" with my reef. Once you learn the basics, and advance beyond the basics, you can almost look at your reef and decide if you need to intervene or not.