The wipeout looks awful. I am sorry you had to deal with that.
Soft corals can put out toxins that hard corals don't deal with well. Not sure if that is relevant to your situation. I have run those Cal, Alk, PO4... numbers and done fine. Slow coral growth but all living. I agree that SPS do better with po4.
ICP test will let you know what might have happened to help you prevent things in the future. I have only used ATI and coral view. ATI is my preferred. Some times they take way too long and I am looking at other options.
Bacterial infections happen. Hight temp like 80f let them happen faster. 76 is kind of a threshold for a few of the ones that kill off coral and get to humans. (tons of exceptions) The Acro die off in the Florida Keys is blamed on a bacterial infection but they have yet to isolate which one.
When I had any signs of STN or RTN in the past I always fragged out the piece. Keep the good part, toss the bad and keep the pumps off when pulling the infected colony. Solid glue line around the healthy frags to be sure that the infection is trapped.
For the past 2 months I had some STN, I had some large SPS and didn't want to frag up my favorite colonies. I searched for options. Iodine dips saved a superman Monti colony.
ICP tested, found some leads. K was low and I corrected it. My belief in the end (now) is that my corals got stressed from some change in the system, one got infected, instead of cutting off the infected parts and keeping the good I tried to wait it out, change water and trouble shoot. Meanwhile infected tissue is flying around my tank landing on all the other corals. Some handled it and others did not. Right now I am checking the tank twice a day and removing anything that looks infected for a Iodine dip or just removal. I have a second tank that I use to take one good frag too. I leave the other good frag in the original tank. It has been a week and I have watched frags in the infected tank lose tissue and die off where the new tank is holding the frags well.
Could be a hundred reasons why this is happening, and I dont have the option to test for bacterium, but in the old days, RTN meant bacteria and I would frag and discard as fast as possible. Things worked out. Peroxide or Iodine dip and holding in a Q-tank for infected parent colonies seemed to pay out.
Funny to me that my beginner, "bulletproof" corals (All Pocilloporas) took the hit and my Acro's didn't have issues.
Unexplained things happen. Sorry for the loss. You had some of my favorites in your system. Keep trying. It all gets better as you move forward.