Low oxygen is not the problem, I am not sure where that comes from. The problem is almost always co2. Whether its not enough surface agitation for gas exchange or whether its high room co2. Running an airstone if your room co2 is high will not help at all. CO2 is easily adsorbed into water but not so easy to get out. Adding buffer wont help low pH, unless you alk is below 6, then it might be an alk issue.
You have several good suggestions.
Make sure you have good surface agitation.
Running a refugium on an opposite light cycle from your tank will help with low pH at night.
Plants in the room and house could probably help.
Opening a door or window will definitely help. Get fresh air in with and lower the co2 level in the room.
Adding a co2 scrubber to your skimmer helps, not because you are putting more oxygen in the water but because you are putting less co2 in. Running the air inlet of your skimmer to the outside will help too.
The biggest thing that helps is using kalkwasser. This not only raises your pH in the tank simply because its high pH, but also because kw takes co2 in the system and converts it to usable carbonate by your corals