In short the answer is absolutely no. Your 250 watt lumenmax elite reflector will only work with 250 watt bulbs.
The 400 watt DE is a non standardized bulb in the lighting community. This means that there are no guidlines regarding size of the bulb. There are a couple different sized (length) 400w DE bulbs out there. Because of this, none of the major lighting companies invested any resources in developing products for this bulb choice. Your best bet would be to sell those reflectors and go with the SE reflectors. There is a much greater choice of bulbs for SE than for DE in both 250 watt and 400 watt. The 400 watt DE has never been a bulb that I would recomend.