I posted a thread a while back about the coloration,
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What are you feeding; live ghost shrimp, fresh shrimp, and fresh salmon will add to enhancement of that red color. If you are feeding dead, you may also add pellets by stuffing them in the chunks of food, you will see alot of pellet food that says enhances color, will add
astaxanthin.
I've seen some males develop their stripes sometimes much early on, less than 4". But it's really not definitive until they are around 4.5" whether it's a female.. When that 6th stripe is sometimes not really fully there, there can be a question to as a male or female. That's where the length of the pectoral fins and head size and shape come into play.