Hey guys,
Little background first.I have a female manderin which I've had for some time now and is fat and happy. I have a 30 gallon refugium with macros and a deep sand bed That has a thriving population of pods and worms. I don't see the female eating the food slurry very often So I'm assuming she's finding food in the tank. I had gotten a male when I first started up the refugium before the population of pods was good. I watched him Get skinny then started hatching brine and feeding that every day. The female kept getting fatter but the male passed.:-(
So, a got a new male in trade a month ago. I thought it was going well. But he too is thinning. I can see his bones on top and sides. I bought live blackworms thinking that might help. But he does not seem interrested at all. I see him pickin at the baby brine feeder, but not enough apparently. :-( so as I sat there in front of my tank all upset, my wife suggested I catch him and give him a few days in my fuge to fatten up. At first i though no becau se I don't want to kill my pod population. But I really don't want to kill another of such a beautiful fish. What should I do?
Little background first.I have a female manderin which I've had for some time now and is fat and happy. I have a 30 gallon refugium with macros and a deep sand bed That has a thriving population of pods and worms. I don't see the female eating the food slurry very often So I'm assuming she's finding food in the tank. I had gotten a male when I first started up the refugium before the population of pods was good. I watched him Get skinny then started hatching brine and feeding that every day. The female kept getting fatter but the male passed.:-(
So, a got a new male in trade a month ago. I thought it was going well. But he too is thinning. I can see his bones on top and sides. I bought live blackworms thinking that might help. But he does not seem interrested at all. I see him pickin at the baby brine feeder, but not enough apparently. :-( so as I sat there in front of my tank all upset, my wife suggested I catch him and give him a few days in my fuge to fatten up. At first i though no becau se I don't want to kill my pod population. But I really don't want to kill another of such a beautiful fish. What should I do?

