I knew that going into this, but I'm having just as many issues with my chalice, my zoas, and my bta.
I did the whole par thing when I first set up the tank and I haven't changed the settings since then. I don't own a par meter but I borrowed one from a friend before I moved and I know the PAR isn't quite what acros would want but it is sufficient for what I have and plan to keep. I believe it was just over 200 at the top center where I placed the montipora. The spot the stylopora used to be in the front right corner of the scape was around 180 par. The zoas were in an area with like 90-100 par but they never showed signs of wanting more light.