This needs to be said, and I think you're missing this: You are in control of your reef and you get from it what you put into it. You can purchase all the hardware, gear, kits, toys, chemicals, magic potions, whatever, but if you don't put the time and effort into the basics, your tank will look like a box of green soup. Your money would be spent best by putting it in your pocket, read and understand what you need to maintain your tank without all this flashy gear, and then you'll start having success. The gear doesn't make the tank, the reef aquarist does!