The famous phase for this hobby is "Nothing good coming too fast"

I can say patience do pay off in this hobby. I did fish less cycle with dry rock, dry sand for few months (probably over 8 months because I couldn't find any interested fishes I want to keep), then started with fish only tank for few months (found a batch of baby clown triggers), after they out grow my tank I sold them all and then converted fish only tank to house Anemones and so far so good I have not run into any problems yet in term of Anemone health care.