I think we probably would agree on a lot of stuff, and naturally disagree on somethings, and maybe even passionately disagreeing on here over stuff if we let ourselves?
When I first started posting I realized that my communication efforts were frequently misunderstood by other readers. I have actually worked hard at changing my writing style with the hope of improving dialogue and communication accuracy. Disagreements are unfortunate but necessary (ime),. Being "angry," "rude," or "offensive" is something each of us needs to personnally regulate per site rules/guidelines and for the benefit of better communications, not to mention that being kind, friendly, and "nice" is a lot more pleasant way to live, ime. (My spouce is hung over and grumbling in the kitchen as I type, and sadly I know too well the subject of communication and happiness
based upon ones own self & general outlook for life.)
For the record; I have no beef with
@Crustaceon, your posts, or what has been writen in the thread. I was making a general/generic comment about our MODS post that seemed to be (again) reminding everyone who is reading that the site is only as good as participants make it, and that there are rules of engagement that promote "kind," respectful dialogue, also they encourage folks to not make personal attacks or heated comments. I know that others on here have likely blocked me because I annoy the fish out of them. I wish it wasn't so but I am a known irritant for some folks, (sorry all-) I am working on it. My writing and comments often rubs folks raw and seem to be a huge distraction for them. I'm trying to be less toxic for the good of the site but I know my efforts will not heal all wounds I've inflicted.
This is the state of our sad existence. When you feel passionately about the hobby, try to channel the emotion away from conflict and towards discussion. If it isn't working out, check out of that thread and know that "those-threads" will happen for all of us. Don't leave angry, examine how come your passion went negative (when it happens) and don't let these situations and discussions go too far in the wrong direction because we can control our response and how positive or negative we want to engage in life and discussion along the way.
She's yelling into the phone at someone. The needle Watson.
If this posts offends anyone or makes them angry, then I have failed with what I wrote and beg forgiveness from the offended. I hope it makes sense, How about a GIF:
Happy reefing!
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