My wife is complaining about how noisy my reef tank is. I have a 75 gallon rimless deep Blue tank. The noise is coming from the water going in the overflow. The water in the overflow rises then goes back down as if it is breathing. This causes the water to rush in once the water reaches its lower level which creates the water noise. I have drilled out the breather hole a little lareger which resulted in instead of a water noise it turned into a suction noise. Should I drill the hole out a little larger? I'm not sure if that is what I should do? Once the hole is drilled I cannot go back. Be nice if there was a little valve where I could control the amount of air going in. Any help here would be appreciated.

