I am not by no means trying to start crud or insult anyone.
This is going to ve a tl;dr
But, hang in there.
Trading your wrasse for a new tank. This might have hurt you. But, did she get a good home?
This is not a lecture, but we need to be aware. Do not take this the wrong way.
We say we love our animals. If we do, we do what's best for them. Even if it means letting someone else have them that can provide better.
Instead of clinging on and saying "but, i love them so much, I can't let them go!"
You did the right thing. For your wrasse. I can say, that is love.
Sure you did a trade. But, it was necessary for both of you to continue.
I am not trying to shine light on someone elses issues or selfishness. I leave with an example currently in the fish disease forums.
If she loved her puffer so much, he would have been found a new home for the lack of ability to supply comfort to said fish.
I'm hoping by end of july to pack up piglet and get him over to flora. It's been a joy seeing that clown grow up so quickly I didn't even notice. He always looked like a quarter to me.
I hope this tank when brought up to light lasts you 15+ years. Or, until you go bigger.
Hang in there