Picking Yourself Up After Disaster Strikes

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I've been a reef keeper for ten years. In all that time, I've seen my share of catastrophes, big and small. Some were self-inflicted, like deciding to add macroalgae to the display tank and watching as, within days, a cyano bloom overtakes everything. Others were chance, like a heater failing and cooking everything alive while I was on vacation.

And then there was last night, when the bottom seam on my tank sprang a catastrophic leak that necessitating pulling everything out of the tank into temporary holding containers, draining the remainder of the water, and scrambling to come up with a replacement tank before everything dies in the completely inadequate holding facilities.

Went from this:

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To this:

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Literally, in the space of two hours.

Thankfully, my tank was just a bog-standard Aqueon 55g, so finding a replacement wasn't too hard. Of course, I say, "Wasn't too hard," and my aching body laughs at me... but I digress.

In the course of dealing with everything, there was a part of me that wanted to just throw in the towel on it all. Wash my hands of it, give all the livestock to the LFS, and find another hobby. For now, at least, the wife and I will keep at it, but this was the first time that the thought of giving it up was actually seriously entertained.

So, moving on from my tragedy... how do you cope with disasters? What keeps you going? Is there a line where you would finally decide to be the next person giving good deals on used equipment because you're getting out of the hobby?
 
my philosophy on life and hobbies....you cant win, you cant break even, and you cant quit
 
I've been a reef keeper for ten years. In all that time, I've seen my share of catastrophes, big and small. Some were self-inflicted, like deciding to add macroalgae to the display tank and watching as, within days, a cyano bloom overtakes everything.

I experienced this exact same thing. I wonder why this happens?
 
Been in your shoes before and it sucks. I just kept trucking along.

If all my tanks popped, burned, or whatever, I probably still wouldn't give up at that point lol. Been doing this too long now. I think I would be lost lol.
 
I had a 90 a few years back. was running great, little high nutrients, but not bad.
went on vacation for a week, came back and found the tank cloudy. my LTA that was the size of a dinner plate was nowhere to be found. best i could tell is that he picked that week to move and found a powerhead. Killed everything in the tank.
and the smell...... omg.......
broke down the tank, sold it and darn near everything (except for the rock, never did find a buyer for that)
totally left the hobby for a few years. now i'm just dipping my toes in again with a 40 breeder setup (and all my old rock lol)
if it wasn't for my gf i probably wouldn't have gotten back in at all. she wanted a tank, and her and my son talked me into saltwater.
 
I almost gave up last month when i went away and my ato got stuck on and overfilled the tank and fried my light and my pumps. I didnt realize it had overflowed and thought a fuse blew and when it plugged back in there was a huge fire ball! Luckily only lost a few small pieces of acros in terms of life but it was unfortunate to loose about $300 worth of equipment. I was so mad and told my wife it was time to leave the hobby but luckily she didnt let me and and we worked together to find a good solution so it doesnt happen.
 
I almost gave up last month when i went away and my ato got stuck on and overfilled the tank and fried my light and my pumps. I didnt realize it had overflowed and thought a fuse blew and when it plugged back in there was a huge fire ball! Luckily only lost a few small pieces of acros in terms of life but it was unfortunate to loose about $300 worth of equipment. I was so mad and told my wife it was time to leave the hobby but luckily she didnt let me and and we worked together to find a good solution so it doesnt happen.
She sounds like a keeper!
 

IF YOU HAD TO TAKE A REEFING EXAM, WOULD YOU PASS?

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