Again, unless you have anaerobic areas in you DT/Sump, you're not going to get the nitrate to nitrogen conversion....and not the volume needed to reduce nitrate (phosphate) levels to all the food and poop added to your tank. That is, unless you add anaerobic areas to do this conversion, your tank/sump can't keep up to the amount of nitrates and phosphates added to your tank.
Now you're observation with acetate is spot on. If we go off Redfield ratios, the carbon: nitrate: phosphorus ratio is 106:16:1. So a whole bunch of carbon (vodka), a skoch of nitrate and a pinch of phosphorus. So yes, carbon is need in the biggest ratio when dosing. But also note, you do need all three for this to work. If you don't have any one of the components, it doesn't work (i.e. bacteria doesn't grow and multiply). Again, you're growing bacteria just to simply remove it by your skimmer. We're not looking at the bacteria (anaerobic) that converts nitrate to nitrogen....a minor component (unless you're doing something like Natureef).