They typically move when they are stressed or when something changes. A great example is the guy who just posted a thread about the nem close to the power head. He changed the lighting and the nem started on a walk about. It may not be happy about the amount of flow, it may not be happy about the amount of light, it may not be happy about things constantly changing in the tank. Typically when Nems are stressed over long periods of time they start to display behaviors like yours as your is dangerously close to needing to be pulled and possibly treated. You've said you've had it for a month and it's not settled yet, have you tried different flow patterns, lighting intensities...etc?
Basically now that we know your current conditions we need some history on what you have been doing in your tank over the last month. Read through this to kind of get an idea of some of what I'm talking about:
https://www.reef2reef.com/threads/introduction-of-a-new-nem-follow-along.324332/
speaking of I need to post an update to that.
Thanks for replying. The first few days he was on the rock I bought him with from the lfs. They had him under radions as well, but blue light all the time.
I set him in the bottom of the tank, and he inflated and looked beautiful for 2 days.
his foot was smooth against the rock, but in the middle of his foot it looked like it was just starting to separate in two. I had read that they sometimes split when stressed, he's about 5 inches across so I wasn't surprised or worried.
Here's a pic
Then we woke 2 days later and he was in the back of the tank against the live rock. I asked around and everyone said to leave him be, he'll settle within two weeks... not to feed him right away, he needs to acclimate.
He was happy, just kind of hidden. Then 2 weeks later a Turbo snail repositioned some of my live rock, causing his rock to fall, at that time I turned the rock he was on to face the front of the tank while fixing everything else.
It's hard to see but he's toward the back of the tank at this point. Mouth still closed tight, at this point I spot fed him mysis with a turkey Baster, I couldn't tell if he really ate.
Went camping for 3 days, came back and he was against the glass and sand at the bottom. Left him alone, I adjusted the powerhead to be as far away from him as possible, so no sand was blowing on him, and, he was lightly moving not being knocked to one side or anything.
Then yesterday we got a frogspawn and I set him in the front of the tank, and adjusted the powerhead so that it wasn't blowing directly on either. Since this, the anemone has moved a few times, this morning he was dangerously close to the powerhead, and I was able to relocate him to some rock.
I have not adjusted the lighting, I can't find anything the I can understand that is telling me how I might change it, and until today, I knew that he was moderately stressed, but as stated above, looked healthy and I wasn't too worried about it. I figured that worst case he would settle on the back side of my tank and I wouldn't get to enjoy much of him.
I've done 2 20% water changes since we brought him home.
Right now he's wedged up under two pieces of live rock facing the back and I can only see his foot, so I'm not sure how his mouth looks