A couple of notes about this discussion. The process for producing activated charcoal does indeed use steam and very high temperatures (about 1800 deg F) to produce activated carbon from bone or wood char. However, this process is designed to remove a substantial amount of the carbon from the surface of the char by reacting it with steam to produce carbon monoxide and hydrogen:
C(s) + H2O(g) = CO(g) + H2(g)
Industrial processes typically lose about 2/3rds of the weight of the initial carbon in the activation process. And for 99% of the global production, the activated charcoal is used once and then disposed of.
There are, however, industrial applications for activated charcoal that continuously regenerate an existing activated charcoal bed with fairly low-temperature steam (at about 400 deg F). These applications are typically for solvent vapor recovery systems. The regeneration temperature is selected primarily on the basis of the steam pressure at that temperature (i.e., the max temp to avoid rupture of the sealed activated charcoal bed) and the minimum temperature needed to vaporize whatever solvent is being recovered.
For aquarists, the situation is different. We are using the activated carbon to adsorb all sorts of things from tank water. Some of these will be proteinaceous compounds, some will be humic acids (that turn the water yellow), and many will be of unknown chemical structure. That makes regeneration problematic. The only sure way would be to repeat the industrial process, which removes all adsorbed compounds except for any heavy metals. But not only are the temperatures and pressures dangerous, you'd also lose 2/3rds of the activated carbon mass with each regeneration.
To further dissuade amateurs from trying this, at least with high temperature and steam, when carbon is heated to 1800 deg F in the absence of oxygen, it will spontaneously catch fire if the container is opened (or there's an air leak). That combustion has the potential to be explosive, depending on the size of the carbon particles and the size of the air leak.