I'd trust my own volume/time calc every day of the week. Not that it's impossible to do volume/time wrong, but I'd trust that more than a flow meter, IMO.
Without naming names, DC pump makers have been flagged on here by more than one user for fudging flow curves, so your experience seems believable to me.
Classic AC brands have had dependable flow curves out for years....decades in many cases.

A QuietOne with a sweet warranty to replace what you have would only run you <$100. Maybe a lot <.
Head pressure is calculated from the
TOP of the reservoir water to the TOP of your plumbing outlet as far as I know, FYI.