I agree with your 8 day assessment that is about what I had on mine when it restarted reef-pi, although I have a cron running now but memory does appear to be building daily, will know more tomorrow from the chart.
Here is my build info:
3 temp sensors (in use 60sec each), 2 pi pwm jacks for lights set to auto, 8 outlets with one in use, 2 timers for an additional light
Here is my hardware info:
Rpi 3 A+, 512Mb mem, same cpu less usb and no network adapter
Software:
Raspbian stretch(4.14) lite headless, no gui ( I don't need no stinking gui), reef-pi-2.0-pi3.deb, no other tweaks that I can think off
Here is my memory information it is increasing but that in and of itself is normal for linux, but it doesnt appear obviously to be freeing it up like it should when needed: