It's not a proper shutdown and restart that worries me. It is that power blink that knocks it offline until manual intervention can happen. I've had that happen on other Pi's I have running in my house (I have a
DIY Ambilight setup on my TV with a RPi being the brains).
Given that I've not yet used these controllable relays yet, I am operating on an assumption. That assumption is this: Once power is removed from the relay (i.e. the power outage/blink) it reverts back to its default state. Is this assumption correct?
If it is, then having a means of controlling the default state of the relay (and thus the outlet) can have its advantages. This certainly doesn't require any additional development on your part. As long as we have the ability to define NO or NC in setup, we're good. It would just be a little extra wiring, putting in a toggle switch between the outlet and the outputs of the relay.