If memory serves me correct, most electromechanical relays state about 100,000 cycles on their datasheet. Some higher end ones go into >1,000,000 cycles. Electromechanical can also do DC voltage (not sure the benefit of controlling DC voltage using a relay in this hobby). I worked on a project where our electromechanical relays went into the millions, but they were pricey and when we rebuilt the testing equipment, we made the jump to solid state relays.
Solid state relays can do well into the 40A range, and much higher, but those guys are huge (~2in x ~3in) and if you are powering that much amperage, you need a big heatsink for them. Not so hobby friendly. The cheap, non brand name ones tend to be dishonest with their amp ratings. The cheap ones started blowing up.
If any device would gain the most from a solid state relay, it would likely be the heater. Less likelihood of a cheap electromechanical failing ON ( if the heater does not have its own internal temperature control). This would be a super rare occurrence, and the increased form factor from a solidstate + heatsink may not be worth the tradeoff.