If you are into DIY projects then reef-pi is for you!
My reef pi build is every bit if not MORE accurate than anything on the market for ph and temperatures.
You can get as elaborate or as simple as you want. There are alot of people making premade boards to give you a jump start and to save you from soldering.
@theatrus @Michael Lane and now
@Schreiber are all selling some reasonably priced killer boards. Browse around some reef pi build threads and get a feel for what you are jumping into.
For example i run a 75g freshwater planted with a sump. My reef pi controls 8 power outlets, has 3 temp sensors controlling 2 heaters, ph monitor and 4 channels of pwm control for led lights. I have a feed macro that shuts down my return pump for 12 minutes then starts it back up automatically. A guesstimate of cost for me was about $150 and some time to build my own controller to do what I wanted. I can even monitor from the web remotely.
If your son wants to help thats even better. What better way to get family time.
The other great part of reef pi is the community. Everyone is willing to help out if you get stuck!