Well here's a question.....I've been told y even use the calibration fluid? Water has 0 salinity...use fresh water, adjust to zero...I don't believe in that but that's what I've been told...please explain why we use calibration fluid
There are two important reasons.
The first is that most of the refractometers sold to hobbyists are not designed for seawater (they likely are not unless they claim "true seawater refractometer). Seawater has a different relationship between refractive index (which these devices measure) and specific gravity or salinity (which these devices report) than does the brine (sodium chloride) solution they are intended for. So even if perfectly manufactured and perfectly calibrated at 0 salinity, they will give incorrect values for seawater, and are off by an exactly known amount. If you have this type of refractometer, and it was perfectly made and calibrated in freshwater, it will ALWAYS read seawater to be higher in salinity than it actually is (misreporting an actual 33.3 ppt to be 35 ppt).
The second reason is that even if it is a seawater refractometer, calibration at a point (0 ppt) far from your intended use (35 ppt) requires that it be perfectly made. Calibration at 35 ppt and use at 35 ppt requires no such level of perfection in the manufacturing. Even if it is a very crappy refractometer, matching the 35 ppt standard will get you very close to 35 ppt. Calibrating at 0 ppt and then hoping it is calibrated at 35 ppt is just that: hope that it was made right.
Further, it is never going to lead to errors to calibrate with a high quality 35 ppt solution, but it can lead to errors to use RO/DI water.
The only exceptions I know of are certain digital refractometers that , becuase of their electronics, force calibration with RO/DI, but you can always check their performance with a 35 ppt standard.
Also, beware that a 53 mS/cm standard DOES NOT necessarily match the refractive index of 35 ppt seawater unless it is designed to do so. So please check that the standard is claimed for this purpose and not just for calibrating a conductivity meter. The Pinpoint standard is suitable.
This has more on these issues, and gives a DIY calibration recipe:
Refractometers and Salinity Measurement by Randy Holmes-Farley - Reefkeeping.com
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2006-12/rhf/index.php