you don't need to worry as much about the pressure or velocity through the return, mostly the flowrate and turnover through your DT. Some people advocate 5X through DT while other higher, up to 10X through DT and sump, so you can probably go with those. I tend towards the higher range of that, but either way you'll be fine. I would start by choosing a flowrate through the DT and sump (also take into account your skimmer and what it's rate will be, try to keep them somewhat close, or just get a skimmer with a good flowrate), then adding up what you need for your reactors, then look at some DC return pumps. Choose one that can provide the total flow you need with the added head pressure of 18", plus some loss running through 90 degree connectors, or get 45's for less loss. I.e., if you need a total of 1500 gph flowrate, find a return pump that can do that at 18" of head, or get a higher rated DC pump that you can dial down electronically... Does that help? For your tank with a DT turnover of 10X, e.g., DT needs 1250 gph, each reactor needs 200 gph, so you need 1850 gph at a head loss of 2 ft give or take, so look for something that does that, or halve the amount flowing into the DT and you need 1225 gph return pump that can do that at a head of 2 ft, or 1.5 m or so, rounded...