flushing before hand is good practice, especially if you have high tds water.
In a perfect world you would have a tds meter before the membrane, and flush the membrane and wait until the tds meter stops dropping in number. There's a number of auto flush options out there, personally I have the booster buddy from aquatic life and it has an auto flush feature that runs for about 30 seconds before each use.
Not so sure flushing after use is going to do anything for you. The TDS creep comes from dissolved solids that permeate back through the membrane to outside once the pressure on the unit is turned off. This is going to happen no matter what after the unit is used. Flushing it won't effect this at all since it will take time for the solids to work their way back out of the membrane.