With ebay you will not get reef quality unless you stick with one of the known vendors and you wil spend the same there as if you went to them directly from a site like this.
The $130 Spectrapure system does not come with a TDS meter. My suggestions would be a HM Digital TDS-3, TDS-4TM, or AP-1, any of the three can be found for $20-$30 and all are temperature compensated so very accurate. I do not recommend the inline style unless you want something for a quick check but lacks the accuracy of a hand held which you would still need.
BRS does not sell the same quality systems as places like Spectrapure, Buckeye Fied Supply or PurelyH2o. There really is a difference. Love their chemicals but their RO is just average.