Oversizing the skimmer is a GREAT move, especially if you can get one that is at least 3-4 times system volume.
Skimmers won't put all the water through before being returned to the tank but they don't need to in order to remove the dissolved organics. Eventually, all the water will have passed through but it's of no concern that way because one it has passed through and returns to the system, that "cleaned" water is immediately being "dirtied" again as dissolved organic production is a constant action. The thing is to keep getting it removed.
The 20X flow isn't a specification of any sort, it's more of how much many of us have found it takes to accomplish the water movement we need in the system and it's not an exact thing. Some of my tanks were set up with about 15-17X flow and some exceeded the 20X by 2-3 points.
My abdominalis tank is 90g with a 40g sump that only holds about 19-20g with all the live rock in it and in the sump I have a return pump rated 900g/hr but is less due to head pressure, and in the tank I have 5 powerheads rated each at 400g/hr plus one smaller one that I don't know the flow of. In addition I have 5 open ended airlines.
The theoretical multiple of flow without taking into account the return pump head flow exceeds 26X using 90+20+110g salt water total in the system.
I personally have NEVER used UV on any of my tanks, be they reef, fish only or any of the seahorse tanks.
In a seahorse tank, my main concern is bacteria and as almost all the bacteria that negatively affect the seahorses are benthic rather than pelagic, they remain on surfaces and don't go through the UV.
Some people feel it helps though for other problems like algae but I prefer to work out my food input and try to balance the removal methods so I don't get any serious algae problems. What goes in must come out.
I've never used a clean up crew. If you think about it, the nutrients in the food are PARTIALLY consumed by the seahorses who eat some of what is added but then, their waste enters the water column with a lot of nutrient due to the inefficiencies of their digestive tracts. Now a clean up crew will feed on the waste material AND the uneaten food but THEY TOO produce their waste which again contains so much nutrient that in it's turn is fed upon by the micro life of various sizes in the system. They TOO produce waste. However, by the time it's passed by the clean up crew stage it's already in a decomposed state to the point the dissolved organic load is rising seriously.
For me, I MUCH prefer to try and remove as much as possible of any nutrient before this happens because while I know it is happening, I have NO way to know how much and how fast it is happening.
So, while this works for me, many people are successful using other methods so it's just a case of doing whatever it takes for the particular system you have.
Sorry for the length, but I'm old and have never learned brevity.