With the possible exception of the little white one, all those anemones look like Aiptasia to me. Annoying, especially when they take over the display.
Bristle worms are fine to have around, but don't try to pet them. The bristles along their sides are like old-school fiberglass insulation. Great little cleaner-uppers, which can squirm into places other critters can't.
Most bivalves will open a little when they're awake and filtering food from the water column - they'll open a lot when they're dead, as a general rule. Yours doesn't look dead to me.
~Bruce