Regarding the snail, I am assuming since there in only one drain, it has a Durso style overflow. If so, the inlet will face downward. Place a 6" screen on this. If a snail gets on the screen, the impact will be insignificant. i do this on all my setups of they don't come with one already.
The 1-1/4" pipe is larger so lets in more water/air, the suction velocity will be less and results in quieter operations. Again, I use tanks that feature the AGA Durso style plumbing and I do the same on those tanks.
My goal is to always size the pipe so the velocity in the pipe is 3-ft per second. This may seem like overkill in the hobby, but this is what I do for a living. At 3 ft per second, you have a much lower velocity that results in nearly no vibration, quieter operation, more efficient, less head on the pump, etc.
So, what is your target flow for the system? You need to know that before you can even guess what your head will be
This is a great calculator:
http://www.reefcentral.com/index.php/head-loss-calculator
Unfortunately it does not have all the new DC pumps on it. But size the system based on a Mag drive pump and then that will give you the pump flow and head. You now know what your head is at your target flow (not pump specific) and from the Mag drive documentation, you will know how to pick what size pump based on what head condition the manufacturer specs the nominal rating. For example, some manufacturers rate their pumps at no head or 0-ft head, others go with 4-ft head or 5-ft head. Just pick the one that matches the selected Mag drive pump.
I do not recommend Mag drive pumps for your main return. They do make great utility pumps, are cheap and as close to indestructible as a hobby pump can get.
I still use external Iwaki pumps, so I can help you on recommending a brand.