I have a single blue chromis in my 40g. It started out as 2 and I got them for the cycling process. One killed the other and I couldn't get him out so I thought "screw this he can stay" and just began stocking with other fish. I put 2 clowns in and he didnt bother them much, but he was a little defensive. After 3 weeks he swims around with the clowns and follows them around the tank in a makeshift school. The only problem i've had recently with it was when I added a tailspot blenny. The chromis would attack at whenever it would come out of its hiding spot. The blenny eventually started fighting back and chilling on the top of the rockwork, and the chromis attacked it less. After about a week, the chromis doesn't seem to care about the blenny anymore.
For all the people saying they aren't aggressive, they are still damsels. They may not be as aggressive as other damsels, but that doesn't mean they can't be aggressive fish.
Oh and 3 wrasses in a 40g is going to be tough. Unless you REALLY know what you're doing and you have an understanding of how certain wrasses will be together in a 40g, I would advise against it. Personally, I think you'd be pushing it with 1, but that depends on the kind of wrasse considering most of them would need like a 50g or a 60g at least.
Anyways, my point is that if you get a Chromis you should make sure that your other fish can stand up to it. If they get bullied and they immediately flee every time, then the Chromis is just going to keep bullying it until they die. If they stand their ground, the chromis will eventually learn not to mess with it, and it will all be fine.
Or you just get lucky and get a really timid chromis.