Ditto love the clown/nem... however after looking at that photo I'm getting a strong psychic feeling that your clown is confused and uncertain... not confident at all in her relationship with then nem. She's afraid of coming off as too needy. She's afraid your nem would host just any clown who showed a passing interest... why can't the nem love her for her?!!! that nem *****!!! how many clowns came before me?! Am I just another in your collection?! Take advantage of me and you'll rue the day!! You hear me ungrateful anemone?!?!!