Sorry its been so long....lots has happened

[oceanparadise1]

so i have been off the boards here for a while, some not good stuff has happened, mother has cancer doesnt have much longer left, tank crashed, was filling the sump up while i got a call from my mother and left fresh water running into the tank for 12 hours before i cought it so EVERYTHING in the 180 is dead....i drained the tank the other day, and am working on a scape right now as i save for some salt and other things i need. Hopefully will have the tank up right after xmas...hopefully as if something happens to my mother it will have to be put on the back buner which sucks bc that tank was my way to get ride of stress....theropy if you would say....well thats the news and im not getting out just yet! :squigglemouth:

 

[thomasdo87]

I am very sorry to hear about your mother, but to be honest a hobby is a great thing to have to keep your mind occupied. My dad got cancer this year and I went through a huge downhil spiral and got back into this hobby and kept busy. It really does help. Your mother will be in our prayers. Talking to someone is always the best. When you are ready for any frags let me know, Ill send you some for free. Pretty sure we don't know each other or even talked with each other but this hobby is much more fun when working together with others.

If your interested I have some D-DH2O salt that I dont use. If you pay for the flat rate offered by USPS i can send you it.

Good luck and glad your back

 

[oceanparadise1]

wow fast and sneaky that would be awsome, as i lost easyer 5 grand in coral and probably 500+ in fish

gf is pretty upset set and as we are about to close on a house money is more then tight esp since i got laid off so its amazing to have people like u in this hobby send me a quote and ill hit you with paypal thanks so freaking much man

 

[oceanparadise1]

Thanks again fast

 

[ahvrivera]

WOW....So Sorry to hear. My Prayers are with you. When you get it cycled and ready, shoot me a pm with addy. I'll ship some frags your way. so sorry to hear.

 

[oceanparadise1]

Thank you that honeslty means more then u know, waking up and turning my lights on to a tank with everything dead killed me.......

 

[Paul_N]

Sorry to hear about your mom. Will definitely keep her and your family in my prayers.

 

[racerw]

Sorry about your mom. you and your family will be in my toughts and prayers

 

[Stray32]

I will have a nice little paly pack ready for you when you are ready bud, no charge. Tell your mom that we are all praying for her.

 

[revhtree Verified Admin]

Sorry to hear Phil. But man keep praying for her because God can still heal her. Also does she have a Pastor?

 

[oceanparadise1]

No rev she doesnt....and stray thanks man thats awsome it will be about a month till im ready thou but thanks again everyone

 

[Sikryd]

That sucks! Sorry to hear you got a lot on your plate. Take care

 

[oceanparadise1]

Thanks sikyrd!

 

[livingcorals]

Sorry to hear what your going through.
Been in your place and for me the saltwater hobby helped out a lot! Rather than taking xanax I would work in the aquarium.
Thoughts are with you.

 

[MikeB]

Sorry to hear about you Mom and your tank. Hang in there.

 

[ReeferRob]

I've been wondering where you've been. Sorry to hear about your mother. I lost my mother to cancer at 12 years of age. Take care man, things will change for the better soon.

 

[MarvinsReef]

your mom and your family will be in my prayers...

 

[oceanparadise1]

Thanks every one

 

[Keiki]

Your mom is in our prayers.

 

[oceanparadise1]

thank you keiki