I agree. To me, polyps will extend when water conditions are great and stable, but I have seen greater extension when I don't run any mechanical filtration and allow a lot of particulates in the water. Even more so if you have a large fish population as they are constantly "fertilizing" the coral.
I've always had an issue with too much polyp extension, where sometimes you can't even see the base coral, which is annoying at times. I had to get rid of my spongodes monti because no matter where I put it, high light, low light, high flow, low flow, it kept over polyping and all I would get is a dirty brown colony instead of the contrast of green base and brown polyp.
My screaming green birdsnest looks like a mille with its super long polyps. Expending polyps is a high cost energy process... in my opinion, the SPS would not be extending them if it wasn't being rewarded with some form of return, such as capture of food in the process. I don't consider them hungry, just realizing they can capture even more energy via polyps to go with the energy they get from the zooxanthallae.