Did you notice Rev is going to sell his 140 gal tank? You need to rely on your youth and budding enthusiasm in order to talk him into a really good price for that tank..... You know that Tommy and Bryan will stock you up with frags (me too as soon as my stuff grows) and we all have some extra live rock that we probably don't like that would seed any new stuff really well.....
OK, so the light would be pretty expensive and the rest of the stuff, but you could make your own refugium out of one of those $1 a gallon tanks and some acryllic and caulking..... Sweet talk someone with an old skimmer to sell it cheap. Everybody likes young enthusiastic kids. Use it to your advantage. When you get old like Alex, they don't give you stuff until you get REALLY old like me and they think you might die off, so what the heck....
Susan (Mom)