^^^^^^^^.Reef tanks are not that easy to set up. It is a hobby first. A journey. Often times the path we laid out changes. It changes because the vision did. That is OK. When the hobby becomes or starts to feel like a job it no longer is a hobby and that enjoyment is gone. You. Wait. Better yet we are not alone. Several of us on this forum and others and locations between Boston and Budapest are in similar situations or have been there. I know I have been.
My upgrade was 2 years late. It has been running now for about 2 years or more and still has a ways to go to fully mature. And to top it off I still do not have a build thread. Probably not my thing which is why I'm shiny / badge free. However, I do try and help others and gravitate to those members here with like interests and personalities.
Never feel bad - you are doing amazing as everyone else in here who contributes, encourages, and above all listens.
This is well put!!!!!





