The only reason small tanks are more difficult than large tanks is because changes happen quicker. ( temp, salinity, etc). Other than that they are amazingly easy.
The only one that actually changes any quicker is temp - and that's because of the surface area to volume difference (and can be completely alleviated if your house is climate controlled).
Good ATOs are like $50, and if you don't want to run an ATO, run a lid, and you'll have very little evap. Alkalinity/etc changes are driven by biology, and don't happen any faster in small tanks - and are WAAAAY more difficult to correct in big tanks. 1ppm phosphate is several hundred dollars of GFO in a 180. Its a handful in a 5g tank.
(And a lot of the things we try to control in tanks aren't stable at all in the wild and we're probably wasting our time and money. Temperature on reef crests changes
rapidly)
@d2mini - I don't know what you're facepalming. He's 100% correct. Newbies run into so many issues because they make the hobby way more complicated than it needs to be. They watch BRS infomercials where they're running all this automation equipment and dosing 9 million things and think that's the hobby baseline - and don't realize they're infomercials.
In the wild, stony corals like acropora live in an environment where they have water that's basically free of dissolved nitrogen and phosphate, but they're being constantly washed in plankton and bacteria and other sources of food. Lots of food - perfectly clean water.
Big tanks are compromises - much of the equipment we use is largely there to alleviate the need for water changes because they become prohibitively expensive, or to offset the fact that feeding corals the way they get fed in the wild is impossible without hopelessly fouling our water. To truly mimic wild conditions, you'd need to basically be dumping fresh new water and a bunch of food into the tank all day. So we buy all this expensive equipment so we can put more food in the water column without fouling - basically to avoid huge water changes because of expense.
In nanos - you can get much closer to this, because water changes are cheap. You saturate the tank with food, give it some time, then do a big water change. Lots of food, fresh clean water. On my big tank, it would cost me $40 in salt to do a big water change like I do in the small tank.
Good light, good flow, good alkalinity management, and lots of food will get you really far in this hobby. In nanos thats easy and cheap. In big tanks, its expensive, and more labor intensive.