First thing I would do is start by blasting/basting your corals a few times a week. Just take an MJ1200, and blast all your corals at first some flesh my come off but it should grow back and they get used to it. It's good for your tank in general and helps keep the numbers in check. I lived with them for almost a year doing just this alone withouth loosing a piece by being eaten by AEFW. Some people have lucked out and been rid of them all together with this alone.
If you have stuff you can easily remove dip that. Becarefull though some acrpora (mostly deep waters) do not like dips. You can use Revive, Bayer, or a few others lots of options in the dipping route. Some people have dipping regements. I just dip when I start to see bites again.
As far as the pods, etc eating AEFW I WISH. I have a frag tank that was infected with AEFW it had no fish in it. It was POD heaven. Didn't matter.
As far as flatworm stop it's to early to tell. A few us having been running it for almost 2 months now but I don't believe many if anybody has hit the recommended 3 month period. If you do run it, use it with K+ as per Thomas Phols instructions why he only informs people of this when you ask him I'm not sure, but it isn't in any of the colletiral. Supposedly it helps it work better. Like I said in the PM. To me it's a 50$ gamble, depending on how much you have in your tank it may or may not be worth it to you. The only thing I can say with 100% certianty is. Flatworm stop will momentarly increase you PE, and doesn't harm anything.
In regards to the responsiblity discussion. Wholesalers aren't going to do ANYTHING to help with AEFW or ANY other pests for that matter bet it Mantis shrimps in the rock, hitch hiking octopus or Aefw. They have the corals in there systems most of the time for a matter of minutes (for the good stuff) to a couple days tops (for the ugly stuff) before they are shipped back out to the stores. The best stuff gets picked RIGHT away and goes straight out the door again. The business is about volume. Stores, depending on where you buy them from may or may bother. Most of them again, try to get the corals as quickly to the consumer as possible the longer they have them the more chance they will brown and loose value, or die on them. Maybe there are a few stores that dip everything before they put it away but that is doubtfull, when you get in 100-200+ pieces a week that's a lot of dipping. We the consumer need to be resposible for what we put in our tanks, or pay higher costs for our corals to have somebody QT, and dip it for us. It's unfortune but just how it is.