So, water change was done, but the star still looked upset. I caved & put it back in almost the same place as before, hopefully out of reach of the anemone & slightly lower in the tank. Figures - it looks completely happy again. I think the new position I'd put it in was more squarely under the halide & it didn't like the unintentional increase in light. We'll see how it looks when I get home tonight (as long as the anemone doesn't move again!)
Not to worry, I am still taking your advice on increasing the salinity, & the piggy bank process continues for an RO/DI system. It looks like the Foxface I was waiting for is also finally in stock, so I'll be getting my starter fish (Foxface, a Basslet & a few blue-green chromis) into the tank too.
Thank you for all of your help & advice!