I appreciate it but I think I have had enough.
Ich wiped out my entire tank shortly after I got it up and running, left it empty for 60-90 days or something like that and now have some parasite or something going through and slowly killing fish and I cant figure out what to do about it. Then when I started stocking the tank again I couldnt keep any sps alive and that drove me crazy, realized I needed more bacteria and a more mature tank so took a deep breath and was going to wait it out. Then this past month or two ive been battling dinos/cyano and cant seem to win that fight and now the fish are dying, which I am a huge animal person and hate losing anything. Funny thing is that the 3 sps I got 3 weeks ago are now doing great.
Also the fish that is thriving in my tank is a copperband, which I think is funny since they can be hard to keep.
Wife and I talked about it a lot last night and ive got a bunch of stressful life events happening right now so that could be a factor, but I have spent wayyyy more time being frustrated or fixing something than I have actually enjoying the tank.
Have a full neptune system, red sea dosing and all that jazz so the chemistry is fairly stable.