Yes, in a traditional setup the siphon/drain capacity exceeds the pump output.
So, noise aside, if you run the drain wide open, the turbulence/bubbles in the weir box cause the siphon to accumulate air and slow/stop? Does that change with higher or lower flow rates from the pump?
I have not run a siphon like yours so I don't know if this behavior is normal, but suspect it might be. I think your type of siphon may require the small pump to keep the air evacuated. Maybe others with this type can weigh in? What is the manufactures recommendation, small pump or no?
As far as the difference between the water level in the tank and in the level in the weir box, it is proportional to flow. The higher the flow the higher the difference, if there is no difference there is no flow.
ultimately, the flow from the overflow will effect the return, albeit just a little.with the overflow slowing, it ultimately is a case where the amount in the return chamber will be lower than it would normally be. so, it doesnt affect the rate in which its returned, just the level in that return, which then has the possibility of affecting an ATO because the change in the water level.
the CPR overflow original design did not come with a pump. many people purchased them after the fact. the overwhelming outcome of the pump was that it works, of course, but at a disadvantage of having to replace that pump often. the multiple complaints that you will find is that the pump gets clogged and stops working over time.
ultimately, the villain behind everythign, is the siphon. however, i cannot use any other kind of setup without buying a new tank, and im just not made of money, so thats not an option, and im not going to drill this tank to install a good overflow setup. the new cpr setups that you can buy, does come with a pump. ther other option is an eshopp variety, but i dont know if they work any better than the CPR version.
noise aside, the turbulance caused by doing it the "correct way" is the main issue. the only way to combat the "correct way" would be to use a pump, but im not a rich guy, so i dont want to throw money at pump after pump, just to keep a constant siphon, versus what i can do without extra money by keeping the water level high.
these are my two options, as i see it right now in my eyes. run the level high, and use two ATO (one for tank, and one for sump), or use one ATO, run a pump for the siphon, replace that every so often if/when it fails,