I recently upgraded my RO/DI to a 6 stage from 4 and bought a new 75 GPD membrane. The stages are as follows, 1 micron sediment (going to 0.5 micron after I use up all my 1 micron on hand), AquaFX Chloramine blaster, and a 5 micron carbon block. This sends on average 380 TDS to my (new) DOW 75 GPD membrane. The membrane sends 15 to 17 TDS to my seperate color changing cation and anion DI cartridges delivering 0 out to my bucket. I also use a booster pump the "Smart Buddy". This setup changed my time to make 5 gallons in 2 hours to 45 minutes. Way over the rated 75 GPD spec for the membrane with no measurable chlorine or chloramines.
There are some differences between my situation and yours. I have city water as opposed to your well water.
Having spent a great deal of my career treating water from the ground, including saltwater, it is a fact that CO2 in water can have very significant effects on the elements (filters, resin, membrane, etc.) used in filtration. CO2 can be bad enough that when in solution with water it will create carbonic acid that will eat steel if in a high enough concentration, we're talking about less than 100 PPM. The only way I know to get rid of CO2 in solution is chemically, through time exposed to air or through aeration. I wish I new of some sort of CO2 scrubber for aquarists (chemical or mechanical) for people that might have your problem, if CO2 is the problem. I know this was long winded but I am a really detail oriented person (my wife calls it anal retentive, among other things)
Happy Reefing.