Do you have a refractometer? It is the best way to measure the amount of salt in your tank. You should be monitoring this as it should be kept around 1.023-1.026. When doing water changes the new water should be the same temperature and salinity as the tank water. In my experience (and with many others as well), not keeping this stable can cause stress on your corals and fish. There are too many variables to pinpoint what the issue is, but you should be keeping an eye on your salinity, ph, kh, Calc, mag, phosphates, nitrites and nitrates at minimum. Some even test for iodine and strontium as well. Temperature also should be around 78 Fahrenheit. I have also been having issues keeping my corals happy but I attribute my problem to too high nitrates despite having a skimmer and macro algae. Best advice I can give is to do more research.