@garra671, I've read through this whole post and have a couple of pieces of advice. Unfortunately I think you've gotten a lot of advice and it might be hard to weed through and pick out the best advice to follow.
In general, when looking for solutions to problems I try to find the same solution presented in multiple locations. I give a heavy weight to actual books, or references to research. Ironically I give very little weight to individuals on forums (even though I'm now giving you advice as an individual on a forum...). The stickies on the tops of forums are the exceptions to this, since they will typically be very common advice and "reviewed" by everyone on the forum. When spending money and time on a hobby I don't want to waste time and money on trying new things out.
For your situation you can always try whatever you want, and see if it works (i.e. garlic and reef safe treatments). But my recommendations below will be advice that I've read over and over, from actual books, and respected authors. You might find one or two people who say garlic works, or reef safe treatments work, but if it's just one or two people you should be skeptical.
My specific recommendation for your situation:
1) get over the garlic. It would be nice if the cure was so simple, but it won't work for external parasites.
2) Add up the cost of your fish in your tank (and corals... since trying to treat in the tank my actually kill your corals/clam) and the cost of fish/corals you plan to buy in the future. Compare that to the cost of a quarantine setup, and I guarantee that the quarantine will be cheaper. You will then have more fun in the hobby when you don't have to stress out over diseases and fish dying.
3) for parasites like ich, and marine velvet cupramine is a safe and proven medication (can not go in display tank!). There are other solutions, but I've read about cupramine everywhere (including books).
4) buy a good book or two and read it. This hobby is incredibly complex, and sorting through all of the "advice" in forums is difficult. At least a book is a single source you can always go to for advice. The conscientious Marine Aquarist by Robert Fenner is a good one that people recommend. I also appreciated the straight forward advice in Mr. Saltwater tanks book "No-Nonsense Guide to Marine Fish Disease, Treatments and Quarantine".
5) personally I would ignore cory's hydrogen peroxide recommendations (and in general anyone who thinks they need to repeat the same thing over and over to try to gain notice).