You’re severely limited on new halide stock. Especially in the realm of singular pendants. Despite the hopes and optimism of some, it doesn’t appear these companies show any signs of revamping their reflector lines. A lumenbright large would glare a lot less, for sure. But finding one may prove to be next to impossible. Hamilton and reef brite seem to be the only ones hanging in there in that ballpark. Reef brites pendants aren’t the right geometry for your goals, and Hamilton can’t seem to keep the big cabo sun units in stock (or they may be discontinuing them much like the Cozumel sun pendant has been just a guess). Even the horticultural world is getting difficult to find decent pendants for.
At this point. If you’re simply able to locate a working 250-400 watt ballast and a quality reflector of any brand, you’re in as good a shape as you can hope to be.
And yes “K” or “Kelvin” numbers basically refer to how blue or white a lamp appears. That is dumbing it WAY down and it is a bit more complicated than that, but at the end of the day, that’s a layman’s takeaway