All I can honestly say is “WOWâ€. I chose to wait 3 weeks before responding to your question on “just wondering what his qualifications are?" I said that I wouldn’t reply, but to sit idle and not respond to something as silly and egregious as this, would potentially lead some to believe these callus remarks. The title of this thread I thought was “Who’s Reefer Aâ€. Based upon a thread I posted well over two months ago on Reef Central. My name was barely mentioned here in this thread in the 6th, 7th and 8th post. So tell me Coralnutz, why would you make such a personal complaint in a public forum on your site, instead of making it months ago in the original forum on Reef Central? Is it because you knew it would be deleted by the Mods on Reef Central? Was it because I am a member of Team RC? I simply refuse to believe there was nothing else for you to talk about here, besides me. You are the Administrator of a web site, and you are taking shots at another reefer in public without provocation? Do you realize the message that you have conveyed to everyone who has viewed your remarks as well as potential members who are just looking in, all over my NICKNAME? This is but one of the many reasons so many newbies will only look and never post--for fear of a post like yours over a moot issue, a non issue.
I came home to a box full of reefers who contacted me in anger over your remarks, some from your own site. Another reason I waited 3 weeks before responding was to see how many reefers felt the way you did, and no one responded. That told me a lot; it says that it’s indeed personal. It’s utterly shocking to me, that an Administrator of a new web site would have the audacity to complain about a reefers NICKNAME that someone else gave them on another site many years ago. I know dozens of people with reefing nicknames; but you are the very first person that I have ever heard or read about who had a problem with someone’s NICKNAME. Whoever said that I am the Zoo Guru BTW? No one!!!!, so why bother to even bring it up.
Then you go even further and question my BACKKGROUND. Please inform the rest of us sir who are you to ask or even question my, or anyone’s background. We are all reefers, just like you, what more of a background is needed? Are you saying sir that I need a background to have a NICKNAME too? I see that you have the name “Zoa Nut†under your I.D. on Reef Central. Do you think I have right to comment in a thread here on your site regarding your nickname? No, it would be silly of me to do so. I won’t even bother to respond to your statement that I am a condescending person, which by the way was another very rude thing to say about someone whom you don’t know. I’m sure now that we have never met. Will you publicly state why you have taken this position against me? Have I in some way that I’m not aware of offended you? I’m certainly not above apologizing to you or anyone if I have done so. Even if you didn’t mean the words to be as harsh as they are, you shouldn’t post something like that unless it is with complete clarity.
Regarding the TOTM, I never mention it, never, but you did.
Regarding the dip, which I posted in 2004, why does it offend you that I posted it? That didn’t make me “the guru or something†as you stated. I have used that dip, which is nothing, for many many years now. If that was used by someone long before I posted it, well that’s great. Who cares about getting credit for it? I’m a reefer; I don’t need credit for anything. You need to read the very first line in the Dip Post again, here’s the link
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=451720&perpage=25&pagenumber=1
And if you knew about a dip like this one, long before I posted it and to make a statement about it 2 years after I posted it, then sir why didn’t you share/post it long before I did in 2004?
“I'm not trying to bash Mucho or anythingâ€. Then what my friend do you think you were doing if you weren’t bashing? You went from talking about the heat in Seattle to questioning me in the next sentence until the end of the paragraph. Do you see that, and I wasn’t even a member here. Is this a common practice?
Guess who said this, “I think Mucho makes a great point about researchâ€, “I think Mucho has some great questions/feedback on the situationâ€. “Great advice as usual Muchoâ€. You did my friend, you said those things. You said “AS USUAL†so why, why would you flip it now? See the links below.
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=723529&highlight=coralnutz+mucho
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=812566&highlight=coralnutz+mucho
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=768974&highlight=coralnutz+mucho
You never once questioned my nickname, the dip, my background or my qualifications on RC. I even commended you on your remarks in every thread that you’ve posted when I also posted on RC.
My qualifications? My qualifications for what? To do what? I’m a reefer, just like you and everyone else here, what qualifications do I need for that. I enjoy listening, reading, experimentation, discovery, sharing, helping and learning. I’m currently working on a project that will take a few more years to complete. When I’m finished, I want to send you a copy of the first printing. Not out of anger, but just to show you how dedicated I am to what I have enjoyed doing for over 13 years now.
In closing, you took extreme advantages of your liberties as an Administrator to take cheap shots at me. Now the discussions are about you and your conduct. I will however pray for you and forgive you. And no, I’m not asking you for an apology as I’m sure you won’t give me one in public or in private. And I would never think of posting what you’ve posted. I don’t know you, so I won’t make disparaging remarks to you or about you either. Since we’ve never met, why didn’t you just send me an email with your concerns and I could have answered every single one of them for you, in private. This is why I say this is an attack even though you stated it wasn’t. I was ask by one of your members to join CZ, but it's clear to me by your statements above that I'm not welcome here.
I want to extend my sincere apologies to the entire Club Zoa staff and its many members for wasting this valuable space and your time with such a lengthy, petty and defensive response. It is my sincere hope that one day we can all agree/disagree and not make such blatant and unfounded statements in public. Statements or questions such as the ones above can very easily be answered with a PM or Email. And please don’t bother to say I’m being a cry baby about this, you opened this door, not me. Coralnutz, there’s no war between you and me; it’s squashed, there’s enough negativity online and I refuse to be apart of any of it.
I wish you well sir.
Mucho Reef
PS. There are three things I think are going to kill this hobby, price gouging, a lack of education/knowledge and flaming. I hope and pray that I am 100% wrong.