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Consuming reefkeeping related information vs. tracking issues you are experiencing
Each of them shows one sided story, what they want to show, not everything what it is about. Arguing with their reasoning in your mind is not helping. Try to track issues that you observe in your tank at R2R Reef Chemistry section, by using search, most likely it is already there.
What is going in your tank, actually
- Did you test every new batch of salt or no.
- Lack of alkalinity consumption could be because of another factor is a bottleneck, stopping a lot of processes from going on. Search Reef Chemistry for zero nitrates and phophates and dinos.They should be out-competed by other microorganisms with NO3 ~10 ppm and PO4 ~ 0.1 ppm. If competition is lacking, try introducing it, as Dr. Tim's treatments or AlgaeBarn's Ocean Magic.
- There are no hobbyists tests for bacterial, protozoan, viral diseases and unhealthy environment because of this. You have to observe, track issues by clinical signs and do treatment. Unfortunately, it may have to start with making the whole system healthier, using your feeling as a test for it. Possibilities could be: bad batch of salt, general disbalance, calibration issues, this can be found out easily, too much DOC (dissolve organic carbon), DON (..nitrogen), ending with facilitating one kind of bacterial growth vs another or in general too much of them, as it happens in unsanitary conditions for humans, no offense meant. You can find research articles and hobbyists versions of this.
- Dinos have to be dealt with, removed, use fresh and frequently changed carbon for toxins, and actual treatments.
From what you described, there is more than there are tests for it. Light shouldn't be an life threatening issue for most LPS and soft corals. Nor lack of skimmer or your system. Do not add too much organics to the tank, sitting there, decaying, feeding not the kind of bacteria you want to have there, smothering everything else. Dose what it is lacking. Canister filter, well, try to smell it, if it didn't become a cesspool for a lot of unhealthy microorganisms. Given a choice, I would rather use micron socks, changed frequently, than a canister filter. At least you can see what is going on there and do something about it.
Next will be not helping main tank directly: setting a small, really small new system, as cheap as possible, almost no harware, no canister filter, cycle, feed it, add phosphates and nitrates if it lacks them, biodiversity, maintained by feeding. Quite possible that it will be healthy, giving ideas that the same could be done in a main tank.
I wouldn't add more corals until the system stabilizes and becomes healthy. If you need test organisms, one snail and one head coral frag are enough.