You missed their point.
OP I guess my question is are you really looking at various articles, posts, forums, and threads for education or are you here to shop for the answer you want? I do not mean for my reply to be disrespectful but I think it is important to know the intent. They are a tricky first for many reasons all of which are masked in their 3" foot print. As you can already tell the replies will vary with them being great, a burden, peaceful to aggression, and more. Who is right, who is wrong? Just goes to show how two hobbyist with the same animal have two different experiences. Heck I had one back in 2000 and it was amazing. Ask me if I own one today - no, I don't.
Things to consider:
Tank size
Amount of rock work
Animals that compete for similar food(s)
Tank maturity
Constant foraging & hunting
Other wrasses
Other fish
Sleeping requirement
Jump protection
I noted above having one many years ago. That display was 100 gallons full of live rock back when we could get it from Fiji. It would roam the whole display foraging for critters to eat. Lights on to lights off it was always moving about the reef structure. Eyes moving. Pause. Look. Dart in, grab the food, and repeat. I did not see it chase other fish nor did it pick at corals. Then again I had no other wrasses in my display for this very reason. In fact no fish was in the system that would forage for pods / critters like it did.
Maybe that is why I never had issues with it? I can't say one way or the other to be honest. I just had a lot of rocks, no fish to compete with its foraging food, and no other wrasses. Me personally I would not put one in a display of that size regardless if an upgrade was in the future. They can be difficult to remove to both fish and hobbyist. No wrasse police here just sharing why I wouldn't. I don't have one in my current 210...
Anyway they are a pretty fish. Hardy. Active. Small enough to get lost in the display yet active enough to see them daily. The history behind them is there for a reason. The onus is on the hobbyist to provide a proper environment for them to thrive.
All the best.