Hey
@Shep I'm glad you are Ok!
The sticky on ground probes is here.
https://www.reef2reef.com/threads/using-ground-probes-in-aquariums.270479/
If you haven't finished your water change yet, just turn off as much as possible and finish it.
I would also run GAC in your system if you don't have any in it right now. If you have stray voltage in your tank then you have toxins being released into your water. Odds are you have exposed copper that is carrying current which will cause it to leach into the water faster.
The GFCI unit you purchased is a great idea. I'm not sure I would wait for delivery. You can get something almost identical from either Lowes or Home Depot. With a ground probe installed (or other grounding device) you can plug your equipment into the GFCI one at a time. The failed unit will trip the GFCI.