It sounds very complex to try to understand how iron would be 'processed' in a tank, what with chelation and precipitation.
Do you think the only way to approach this would be to measure the iron lost from the stones or would you choose to try to test the water one way or another, if you wanted to determine the iron lost from zeolite in a tank? I wondered about pulverising some stones, mixing the powder well, and splitting it in two samples, one for soaking in a tank, one for analysis as is. But the powdering step would probably make leaching more effective that with solid stones I imagine.