0.1 ppm copper is not a low concentration of copper. It can explain what happens with the inverts and also to some of your fish. Already at concentration above 0.02 ppm shrimps start to have problems. However - it is difficult to test Cu with some of the normal hobby test. What did your LFS use for testing 0.1 ppm Cu?
I second this, any copper is bad for inverts and they will start to parish. Based on everything in your first post this is what I would focus on first.
Definitely test your RODI water and fresh salt mix... DI resin isn't perfect, it's really good but it only works for things which are ionically charged.. additionally the resin will swap out elements based on charge potentially pushing it back into the water. BRS did some experiments showing this mostly with silicates.
Put some cuprisorb into your sump to start removing it.

