I've been running calcium reactors for about 5 years. I'm in no way a pro, but after 5 years I got mine running pretty good.
Reactor brand:
I've ran Korallin, Aquamaxx, and now I have a Geo 624. I have to say, the Geo is by far the best reactor out of the three I've used. Very simple, and hasn't missed a beat since I've set it up.
The key to getting a reactor running smoothly is having the right equipment. I wouldn't run a reactor with out one of these PVC needle valves

Here's an idea for a second stage to help scrub any excess co2 out.
You can get these from any place that sells RO/DI equipment. They are cheap and work great
I ran that Korallin for years, and I only upgraded because I was having to refill the media every few months. Kind of a pain. The Aquamaxx I only ran for a few weeks, and I wasn't a big fan. Ended up breaking, and luckily I got my money back and bought the Geo.
Regulator:
I've had the same JBJ regulator for 5 years, and once its dialed in, its worked great. I did just order all the parts to build a DIY two stage regulator. I was just worried that the solenoid on my JBJ was gunna go out. so instead of buying a new solenoid, I just said F it and got a whole new rig. Should be pretty sweet when it's all setup.
Here's my new two stage reg
Feed pump:
IMO the guys using dosing pumps as feed pumps are super overkill. I'm sure they work great, but I've had my reactor running off a manifold for years and never had 1 problem. If people are having problems with feed pumps, I'm gunna guess they are doing something wrong.
This is my current manifold. Just need a simple gate valve to adjust flow to reactor. A ball valve is no good IMO.